Saturday, March 6, 2010

inside the loop

so i don't know where you are reading this from. no matter what city state or country, i have to say today is really for all readers to changed, encouraged, or challenged by. there is a term in dallas tx- "inside the loop" which refers to the area of Dallas that resides with in the loop that loop 635 makes. the loop is also called LBJ referring to the late president Lyndon Baines Johnson the 36th president of the United States.

well let me give you some back ground information as to what i am really getting at today. the thing is i have a pet peeve. i would say that i absolutely hate it when people say they are from dallas when they are really from plano, frisco, garland, lewisville, rockwall, rowlett, irving, arlington, carrollton, mesquite, richardson, addison...must i go on? the thing is they aren't from dallas. these people (i won't mention any names) haven't ever lived IN dallas, and yet people claim it as their home every day. the reason this truly gets under my skin is because my birthplace, my roots, my hometown, is Dallas Texas. yes shockingly my zip code, area code, and actual address are all DALLAS.

well this topic came up here in the dubai, b/c brian who lives with me tries to tell people that he is from dallas. the thing is now that i am here i have to keep it real and set him straight and enlighten people that the truth is brian is a liar and he is from plano. wah waaugh. in doing so the specifications as to what part of dallas i am from have come up and brian recognizes that i am indeed from inside the loop. yes i am. its all i have known. i am not ashamed by any means.

well that isn't the saddest part of the story. now brian feels like he has to scorn me incessantly blaming any and all circumstances regarding me on the sheer fact that i was raised inside the loop. it goes something like this. sitting drinking coffee in the morning i say, "i don't think you are going to be very willing to let me or katie drive the jeep." he says, "you haven't asked, but it doesn't drive as easy as the pajero, much less as easy as cars from inside the loop"....little does dr.washam know what my first car was. ha. i have driven far more challenging cars than some '96 jeep, i.e. '65 chevy suburban with no powersteering at 17-take that. and that is just one of many cars i have conquered. its not like i am a parkie or something. and this is just one of the instances that my the location of my upbringing has been used against me, basically brian views the locale of my youth as a true character flaw.

all this to say. i have heard the phrase inside the loop far too often for being so far outside the loop at this point in time. all i am saying is would it be so hard for people to say i am from the dallas metroplex. or i am from a suburb of dallas. or i grew up 30 minutes north of dallas. i mean really the options are endless. and the outcome is more specific without having to lie. this is something i hope all people will take into consideration when stating their place of origin. take it and run with it and thank me later for bringing you of a life built on lies to the rest of the world.

sorry this had nothing to do with what is going on with me in the dubai.

6 comments:

Graham at Chadwell Chronicles said...

Of course somebody raised inside the loop would write this post...

Becky said...

Excellent essay, Sally. However, I must say, that for starters, Loop 12 was the original loop. The expanded loop of 635 would include the section of Mesquite where we lived when our kids were born yet it is most def not Dallas. Yet, they were all born in Dallas inside the loop which is where all the large hospitals are located. Sooo....how do you make all that work out?

Shoh's Shorts said...

Can anyone say Dallas Diva???

:)

Natalie said...

Haha. I agree with Graham. Are you a parkie?

amber said...

oooh, love that I can post now! :)


oh sally. I'm still with wash. I mean, being from Dallas certainly allows you to think that everyone in the world might know where Mesquite, or Coppell, or Plano, or (insert favorite burb here) might be, or that people from all over necessarily know what a "metroplex" is, but for the sake of not complicating communication with new acquaintances unnecessarily, it is often quite preferable to say Dallas and not have to engage in the five minute explanatory conversation that follows giving an answer that follows the "Dallas metroplex" response. Clearly you've never had to do such a thing, being from inside the loop and all, but believe me, it can be a beating.

You'll be happy to know I do often forgo the "Dallas" reply by just saying that I'm from near Dallas, or around Dallas. But only if I want to commit to the next five minutes.

However, as I decisively defend a person who wants to say they are from "Dallas" when they are from a Dallas burb, I similarly defend your right to choose your pet-peeves! I'm sure mine would seem equally unjustifiable to those not living inside my head.

Miss you! See you in a few! :)

Leslie Pruitt said...

I totally feel you on this subject Sally Pat!

Love,
Leslie P. ( your fellow inner-looper)